男人不坏，女人不愛

This topic recently came up amongst my frens... 男人不坏，女人不愛. i think its quite true, given the no. of cases i've heard/encountered...

I once had a fren (J) who was going after this ger (Y), who was very sweet (the ger), frenly and chatty. problem is, this ger already had a boyfren, but this boyfren (Elvis, dun ask why) isn't treating this ger well. As things ain't going well between Y and Elvis, Y soon falls for J... but Y couldn't bear to leave Elvis, and didn't want to hurt J. so it dragged on.... till the point where Elvis finally "awoken" and realized J's presence and wat he was going to lose, so asked for Y's forgiveness blah blah. Y, even after being treated badly by Elvis, even after being treated well by J, still decided in the very end to accept Elvis and declined J..... well, since then, it seemed that Elvis and Y had gotten married or something, and J.... oh well.

There's oso another fren of mine. this one, whenever in a relationship, is always treated like trash by those bastards. problem is, she somehow still feels for these idiots. She's a very nice and likeable ger, so there have been many guys, some of which i think will treat her well, that have asked to go steady with her... but i dunno if its phobia or wat, she hasn't accepted their feelings... i really hope she can forget those bastards, and let some good guy cherish her instead.

so is it really that 男人不坏，女人不愛? I really feel sad for my "good" guy frens who always get involved in kind of relationships, and feel sad as well for my gal frens who have been badly treated by those bastards, yet cannot forget them? i think i must be a little bothered by this, thus so much blog today... sorrie!