Scale of happiness?

I guess sometimes we dun notice how a little action or something trival (to me at least) can act on another in a dramatic way... I oways tot i pay attention to how others feel before i make a move, but obviously i am overly confident... haiz..

As i was happily chatting and entertaining one, another(s) was/were feeling left out that outing on Monday. I guess i was "hogging" onto one and prevented others from speaking to her... which i din even notice on that day itself. hmm... now looking back, i was really paying attention to one and neglecting others around. haiz.... I'm sorry!! for those who felt neglected.... it wasn't my intention... guess it was my own assumptions that made you felt left out... paiseh!! i will never 把自己的快樂建在別人的痛苦上 one.

From now, i will be careful not to tip over the scale of happiness.... cos everyone is on this scale, and too much on one side may juz tip over the other...